• Relationship Coach
  • IFS Practitioner
  • Certified Trauma Recovery Coach

About Jillian​

For years, I felt stuck in a loveless, emotionally abusive relationship that left me questioning everything: myself, my worth, and what love was even supposed to feel like. Filled with anxiety, I was lost in a fog of self-doubt and anxiety, unsure if I should stay or leave. But I knew, deep down, there had to be more. So, I reached out for help. That step was the start of a different life.

As I began the journey inward, I started untangling years of pain, deeply held beliefs, and patterns that had kept me in a cycle of unhealthy relationships. The powerful modality of Internal Family Systems (IFS) became a lifeline, helping me heal parts of myself that felt anxious, unheard, and small. I started to see love differently, learning what true self-respect and conscious dating meant. It was like clearing the fog and finally being able to clearly see myself and others for who they are.

For the first time, I could see that my struggles weren’t all my fault—that so much of the pain I had experienced was because of what I’d been attracting, not because of who I was. I took back my power, learned to stop chasing, and to start choosing with intention. Eventually, I found a healthy, loving relationship that felt like coming home—a love that allowed me to be fully, authentically myself. Someone who appreciates the woman I am in all my strength and pain. 

Since then, I’ve devoted my life to helping others experience this transformation. If you keep finding yourself in the same painful cycles, with the same people and the same heartache, please know that love doesn’t have to feel this way, in fact that's not love. There is something far greater, safer, and more comforting waiting for you—a way to approach love that feels calming, aligned, and true.

When you feel safe in your own heart and grounded in who you are, love becomes a choice—not a chase. I’m here to help you make that shift, so you can move forward in your relationships from a place of self-assurance and peace, rewriting your love story in a way that feels empowering and joyful. You deserve love that nurtures and sustains you. Together, we’ll get you there.
 
​Are you ready to become a self-led, conscious person and claim the love story meant for you? 

Join my Dating for Love Monthly Membership and instantly start shifting your dating and relationship strategy and claim your worth! Get started for $1! Save yourself from heartache and more bad dates and relationships.

When a person consciously shifts
the relationship with themself,
their love life transforms.

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